Sex Within Marriage

God designed sex exclusively for married couples only, not for those who are in love. Our liberated society under the influence of the new morality is destroying the divine will regarding this issue. Today, love is defined as sex. Many young lovers are interested only with their passions and desire and not with the relationship.

Sex is for pleasure of married couples and not for those seeking pleasures or sexual experiences. God designed sex for pleasure, procreation and physical intimacy of husband and wife not for those seeking sexual adventure outside legitimate marriage. Sex before marriage or outside the legitimate marriage may end-up to broken relationships, broken family, broken hearts, separation and painful memories.

Sex outside or before marriage may result to unwanted child, which means additional responsibility and headache Teen-age marriage always results to self-made miseries for both of the couple. Giving in to sex before marriage, is not proof of your love but a sign of passionate lust. There is proper time for everything under the sun.

Sex with the wrong person at the wrong time is unhelpful and sadistic disregarding the impact on the other party. The unbelievers are of the world but for Christian to adopt the trend of the world is to reject the will of God (and to manufacture self-made miseries). Sex is for mature people with genuine commitment to love each other, regardless of the consequences.

Believers who follow the trend of the world regarding free sex or the new morality code (of sexual perversion) are living under the satanic will. The ability to have sex is not a sign of masculinity for a man and is not a sign of felinity for a woman. Sex proves nothing. Dogs just do it for no reason at all, except for their biological instinct. Sexual pleasure is temporal. Those who are seeking frantic happiness from sex will always be disappointed because sex cannot fill up the vacuum in your soul. Sex cannot fill-up the loneliness, the boredom and emptiness of your soul. Only God can answer that emptiness.

Sex is not everything but God is. The beasts have their own pleasure of sex but they cannot possess happiness from sex. Man in the same manner cannot find any happiness from sex. God alone is the source of true happiness. Sex is not love. Real love can wait but lust is very hungry for sex.

Sexual purity is not replaceable. The real issue here is the soul for the person. Sexual perversion is the deviation from the normal function and therefore, it is not only social, political emotional sin but as well as spiritual in nature. Christian must aim to become spiritual and advancing believer- the best for his/her lover. A person whose mind is always filled with sex will eventually become a rapist, sex maniac or adulterer. A person who is not satisfied with one wife or one husband will always look for another.

Sex at the wrong time (anytime outside marriage) with the wrong person (anyone one other than your spouse) will end up in broken relationship, broken hearts, broken bank accounts and broken family.....

Sex before marriage or outside the legitimate marriage may end-up to broken relationships, broken family, broken hearts, separation and painful memories. Beware that pre-marital sex outside or before marriage may result to unwanted child, which means additional responsibility and headache. Teen-age marriage always results to self-made miseries for both of the couple, being force into responsibility. Those who give in to sex before marriage may realize that it is not the proof of your love but a sign of passion or lust. There is proper time for sex but
definitely, it is not before marriage.

Sex with the wrong person at the wrong time is unhelpful and sadistic disregarding the impact on the other party. Sex is for mature people with genuine commitment to love each other. The ability to have sex is not a sign of masculinity for a man and is not a sign of  true femininity for a woman.

Sex proves nothing. Dogs just do it for no reason at all, except for their biological instinct. Sexual pleasure is temporal. Those who are seeking frantic happiness from sex will always be disappointed because sex cannot fill up the vacuum in your soul. Sex cannot fill-up the loneliness, the boredom and emptiness of your soul. Only God can answer that emptiness. Sex is not everything but God is. The beasts have their own pleasure of sex but they cannot possess happiness from sex. Man in the same manner cannot find any happiness from sex. God alone is the source of true happiness.

Sex is not love. Real love can wait but lust is very hungry for sex. Sexual purity is not replaceable. The real issue here is the soul for the person. Sexual perversion is the deviation from the normal function and therefore, it is not only social, political emotional sin but as well as spiritual in nature. A person who is not satisfied with one wife or husband will always look for another.

Think about the issue of virginity?

Consider the following:

1. Losing your virginity is losing a part of yourself, something you cannot regain.
2. For men that rite is a plus factor, for girls it’s a minus. For men, that is their bragging rights.
3. A woman who has remained a virgin up until her wedding, shows that she was willing to wait for her husband, and is much more likely to remain a faithful wife throughout the rest of her life. I am not talking about virginity stolen by force like in rape or criminal matter, but that when girls gladly surrender it out of curiosity or adventure for pleasure apparently of their free will.
4. By remaining a virgin until marriage, the marriage is made to seem more meaningful for the woman. The husband is then reassured that he is the only one his wife desires to be with.
5. Besides the jealousy and insecurity factors though, I think many men also want their wife to be a virgin because it is a way of the woman proving that she will be faithful to her husband once they are married.
6. If the woman is not a virgin, the man may fear that he will be compared to previous partners of his wife, and he may not live up to the woman’s expectations.
7. Those who lost their virginity are engulfed into inferiority, filled with negativity, filled with guilt for being passive, sometimes for the rest of their lives.
8. In a world where lost of virginity and premarital sex is accepted and common, men of Christian faith would still desire their wives to be pure until the marriage.
9. The man who truly loves her woman will definitely love her unconditionally, respect her as a person regardless of her past, and accept her without reminding her of the past and without using her past to intimidate or threaten her in anyway.

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